Matt - I don’t believe I’ve ever met anyone as diplomatic as you are..
Really? I think this Guy need a lesson in customer service...
People don't do things they think are un-reasonable.....
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Not sure if serious....
So people who con people knowing it is immoral, wrong, un-reasonable or spiteful don't exist?Completely so.
People often do things that other people think are un-reasonable.
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So people who con people knowing it is immoral, wrong, un-reasonable or spiteful don't exist?
I won't have done as I don't work like that but you said "people don't do things they think are un-reasonable" which is utter BS.
Yes thanks for telling me what i'm confusing, I only studied Psychology for a few years and still continue to read papers.Thanks for sharing the depth of your insight
BTW you're confusing or conflating, (I think) 'immoral', 'wrong' and 'spiteful' with 'un-reasonable.'
I could well be wrong
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Exactly, I meet them all the time at work, in everyday situations, people are un-reasonable on a daily basis and continue to "try it on" despite knowing full well they are being un-reasonable. Like a boss asking someone to work another weekend after someone has worked a double shift already that week or three evenings etc... Still an example of someone being un-reasonable yet knowing full well they they are being that way.I regularly come across unreasonable people. They know that their requests are unreasonable, but they are happy to try it on in any case. Some people are like that, some are not.
I'm just hoping Catman is being obstinate here to prove a point
No, actually. And I disagree with your example. The boss may well be being unreasonable, but I really really doubt he thinks he has any options. He will be rationalising it. "It's not my fault" "There's nothing I can do" and so on. But I certainly don't want to fall out so happy to let it drop.
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